I’m drawn to someone who knows how to be gentle and dangerous in all the right ways. A protector by nature — caring, kind, emotionally aware — but with an edge that comes out when it’s time to take control. I want someone who can make me feel safe enough to surrender and strong enough to stand beside.
You’re playful, confident, and grounded. You enjoy intensity but never cruelty; dominance that’s rooted in respect, not ego. You know how to read a room, read a body, read a moment — and you take pride in being both rough and reassuring, firm hands paired with genuine warmth.
Fun matters. Laughter matters. Chemistry matters. You’re the type who can tease, challenge, protect, and still hold space for softness. Someone who enjoys connection just as much as tension — and understands that the best kind of power exchange is built on trust, consent, and mutual desire.
If you’re protective without being possessive, strong without being cold, and you know how to make someone feel chosen, wanted, and a little undone… we might be exactly what each other is looking for.
Hi there, I am a spanko to the core. I can sometimes switch, but am very bottom leaning.
I enjoy sports, like hiking and cycling or mountain biking. I am also an engineer and enjoy being fun and silly.
I am also married with 2 kiddos. My husband knows about my spanko side. I am not looking for a 3rd or any kind of thing that involves him.
Happy to chat and make some friends!
I’m drawn to someone who knows how to be gentle and dangerous in all the right ways. A protector by nature — caring, kind, emotionally aware — but with an edge that comes out when it’s time to take control. I want someone who can make me feel safe enough to surrender and strong enough to stand beside.
You’re playful, confident, and grounded. You enjoy intensity but never cruelty; dominance that’s rooted in respect, not ego. You know how to read a room, read a body, read a moment — and you take pride in being both rough and reassuring, firm hands paired with genuine warmth.
Fun matters. Laughter matters. Chemistry matters. You’re the type who can tease, challenge, protect, and still hold space for softness. Someone who enjoys connection just as much as tension — and understands that the best kind of power exchange is built on trust, consent, and mutual desire.
If you’re protective without being possessive, strong without being cold, and you know how to make someone feel chosen, wanted, and a little undone… we might be exactly what each other is looking for.
Hi there, I am a spanko to the core. I can sometimes switch, but am very bottom leaning.
I enjoy sports, like hiking and cycling or mountain biking. I am also an engineer and enjoy being fun and silly.
I am also married with 2 kiddos. My husband knows about my spanko side. I am not looking for a 3rd or any kind of thing that involves him.
Happy to chat and make some friends!
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